What happens when a horsemad Ould Wagon moves from Cork to Provence with 2 horses, 2 dogs and a Long Suffering Husband? Why, she gets a third dog, discovers Natural Horsemanship à la Française, starts writing short stories and then discovers a long-buried talent for art, of course…
Monday
I had my first riding lesson in French! It worked out ok… I learned a few new phrases and promptly forgot most of them, but I’m sure some of them will eventually sink in and lodge in my brain.
I did my usual cautious thing of leading Aero around once in each direction, but he was very calm and placid – tired after all his trekking over the weekend, I’d say. I mounted and then we stood for a while, as I went over the things we are struggling with with Alexandrine. It was interesting, that at the end of the lesson she remarked that he was tense as soon as I sat on him, but as we stood there and talked, he relaxed more and more… a point to remember, perhaps.
Before we got moving, we practised flexion to each side, with Alexandrine reminding me to release the rein when I get a response. Once we started walking around the arena, I continued flexing him, to the inside down the long side as we went straight, and then turning a 10M circle at the corner. The next step was to turn a 10M circle using just the outside leg to move the shoulders, and use rein only if I needed to. All of this went well, and we progressed to leg yielding, so Alexandrine could see the issues I was having.
The first issue was that Aero’s rider was a bit thick – I made a stupid approach to the long side which started us off crooked before we ever tried to go sideways. Once she corrected my approach, we did a sort of jerky, stop/start leg yield from the quarter line outwards. To improve things, we started leg-yielding along the fence-line, with a stop half-way along and a reward if he gave a couple of good steps. We also started throwing in a bit of trot work from time to time, just to keep Aero thinking “forwards.” The fence-line leg yielding got quite good, and we finished up with a lovely, stretchy, over-the-back trot – best I’ve felt from him yet! I think that the leg-yielding (when properly performed!) had loosened up his hocks & hips, resulting in the much freer movement.
Points I have to remember : RELEASE when I get a response. Can I please have it engraved on my corneas so I can see it all the time? No?
Tuesday & Wednesday
Aero had a day off on Tuesday, while I rode Flurry to Reillanne and back, then on Wednesday we had our big, long, exciting picnic ride to the river – but there’s no point in rehashing that!
Thursday
I gave Aero another day off (he deserved it) and rode Flurry in the arena, trying out the Micklem bridle in its “Bitless” configuration for the first time. I think the Bitless progression will merit a post of its own, so more on that later.
Friday
This was the day the Osteopath was coming to see Aero. I rode Flurry part of the way down to Reillanne with MC, she was taking Quieto home for a couple of days. I did a nice loop, going down one way and back another – it took a little over an hour and was very pleasant. Flurry was in lazy mode.
The Osteopath duly arrived. She was young, petite and slim – she reminded me of the YD a bit – and she was accompanied by two cute and well-behaved Jack Russell terriers! They busied themselves checking everything out while she and checked Aero over. Sure enough, he had some stuff going on. Now I’m feeling guilty I didn’t get her out sooner.
His sacrum was tilted, up on the left and down on the right, we are assuming this was caused by leaning against the ramp of the truck for hours and hours while travelling from Ireland to France. This crookedness in his sacrum was causing him to over-push with the left hind, and compensate for this by throwing out his right shoulder, which manifested itself as the reluctance to bend right that I could feel. Everything else she found was linked to the sacral issue. There were three lumbar vertebrae out of line – this was the warm and slightly tender spot I could feel behind the saddle. His withers was also “stuck,” three cervical vertebrae were out of line and he had a lot of tension around his poll, which was caused by the other misalignments.
He has to have two days off, followed by a gentle lunge (that might turn out to be a walk in hand!) followed by a day when he’s only ridden in walk and trot, on the arena or out on the trail. After that, it’s back to normal work, but I am to let her know how he’s getting on and he may need another visit.
Poor Aero! I hope this treatment makes him feel better and better!
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| Rôti de porc |
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| Tagliatelle au cèpes |
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| Tarte au Framboise |
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| Tiramisu |
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| Happy Ears, leading the way! |
Apologies for the blurry photo, but I had to share the “Aero’s Happy Ears” picture! He was calm, attentive, not at all jumpy, and what is most important to me, he was happy, striding out confidently and enjoying the scenery. He led the way until we turned off the trail he knew and headed into unknown territory. After that, he wasn’t balky or spooky, but he was a little more tense, so Quieto took over the lead and he followed along easily.
After a very pleasant trek through the ubiquitous oakwoods, we finally arrived at the river Largue, let the horses have a paddle and then settled down to eat our picnic.
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| The river Largue |
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| MC, Doug and Quieto |
He didn’t really “get” the whole picnic idea, and never settled to graze contentedly like Flurry would have – he was constantly on the move, circling around me at the end of the lead rope, picking at the grass for a moment or two and then wandering off again in a new circle.
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| Ok, I’ll graze for five seconds before I wander again… |
I gave him the pieces of chopped carrot I’d brought him, but he still wanted my water, my sandwich, my cereal bar… I kept telling him that his picnic food was all around but he didn’t really believe me!
When the time came to tack up again for the return journey, I tied him up to a tree so I would have both hands free. He stood absolutely fine as I went to and fro picking up his gear – next time I will tie him up but stay nearby while I eat.
We came home via a different route, and this was where it got interesting. The first issue was three baying hounds as we rode through a farmyard – Aero looked, but, actually, the hounds were no problem.
Then we met a tractor, carrying a load of wood down from the forest on the narrow pathway. Again, no problem, we ducked into the trees and avoided it.
The path got fainter and fainter, until it became clear that we were following a sheep trail through the forest. Ok, MC had gone slightly off course, but we could see the proper trail beneath us. We were on a steep hillside, covered in stunted oak trees, far too low for us to duck under on horse-back, so dismounting and leading the horses back down to the trail was the obvious thing to do. MC went first, with a slightly heart stopping moment as Quieto half-slid, half-fell down the slope behind her. Aero and I descended by a different route – we had the advantage of MC being able to spot an easier way down for us! A slight scramble/slide/jump later, with Aero popping down neatly slightly behind/beside me, and we were back on the trail again… or were we?
The trail once again became fainter and fainter, and eventually gave way completely at a point where there had been a bit of a landslide. MC thought she could see the trail above us, so we headed back into the oak-woods, this time scrambling UP the steep slope. Up and up, eventually we faced into an almost vertical ascent, where Quieto had a major slip and ended up scrambling up the ascent with difficulty. I went left of where he had his slip, and tackled the ascent, praying that Aero wouldn’t launch himself after me and knock me over. I needn’t have worried, he completely understood what he had to do, I climbed slightly above him, got onto a level-ish bit, clucked at him and he popped up beside me, and then continued to climb while I hung onto the lead-rope that was still tied around his neck. What a little star!
We had to have a brief stop because Quieto had pulled off both hind boots, leaving one behind where he had had his bad slip. MC held both horses, who stood like angels while I went back and fortunately found the boot very quickly.
We consulted “maps” on my iPhone, which gave MC a good idea of where we were, so we continued upwards and upwards towards where the trail should be. It was less steep, but still very over grown – both saddles were being scraped by low branches nearly every step of the way. Aero at this stage was walking behind me, it was way too narrow for him to walk alongside, but he really seems to be getting the idea and wasn’t treading on my heels at all.
Eventually, huffing and puffing (the two mature ladies, not the horses!) we reached the trail and remounted. We had one final bit of excitement, though. As we went through the grounds of Le Couvent de Notre Dame (we shouldn’t have been there, shhh!) two sheep ran across in front of us. The temptation was too much for Doug, and he gave chase enthusiastically. Aero wasn’t bothered, either by the appearance of the sheep or the dog chasing them, but unfortunately Doug didn’t reappear, despite calls of “Au pied!” from MC. We had to turn back and tiptoe past the priest’s house once again, hoping that Doug wasn’t tucking into fresh, juicy sheep as we went.
He reappeared, looking slightly guilty but fortunately not blood-stained, and we all carried on towards home.
Guess who led on and off for the rest of the way home? Yes, my formerly anxious and unsettled little ex-dressage horse! Himself and Quieto took it in turn, sometimes walking alongside each other, sometimes Aero in front, sometimes Quieto. Yeah, Aero rushed a little from time to time, but not in a worried sort of way, more in a “I know we’re heading home and I’m hungry and Flurry’s all on his own” sort of way.
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| Superstar Aero! |
I could not be happier with this little horse! This is the sensible, reliable Aero who has lived with us for twelve years, and today he proved himself sure-footed and intelligent as well. He is finally settling into his new rôle and learning that it’s FUN!
This trek would have been a disaster if we had attempted it two weeks ago, I’m pretty sure he would have freaked out climbing through the thick woodlands, but he has now de-stressed to the extent that he can analyse what’s going on, figure out how to handle it and learn from his experiences.

