What happens when a horsemad Ould Wagon moves from Cork to Provence with 2 horses, 2 dogs and a Long Suffering Husband? Why, she gets a third dog, discovers Natural Horsemanship à la Française, starts writing short stories and then discovers a long-buried talent for art, of course…
When I did my first Sunday Stills post last week, Strawberry Lane directed me to http://sundaystills.wordpress.com/ where I found that the reason people post Sunday Stills photos is that they’re taking part in a Photography Challenge every week – d’oh!
This week’s challenge is Hallowe’en – how is Hallowe’en celebrated in your part of the world?
Well, I’ve never been in France for Hallowe’en before, but it’s been abundantly clear over the last couple of weeks that they don’t celebrate it at all – or not as we know it, anyway.
No witches or ghouls, no fireworks or bonfires, no peanuts or pumpkin carving (that’s actually an Irish tradition, y’know, we used to carve turnips in bygone days). No kids in fancy dress, no goody bags, no scary skeleton decorations, no Hallowe’en party games like dunking for coins or apples.
None of that stuff. Instead of that, La Toussaint (All Saints Day) is a holy day and Public Holiday.
The quintessential symbol of this Holiday is the humble Chrysanthemum – so much so, that the big supermarket in Apt, LeClerc, has this announcement on the doors as you go in :
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| Arrival of the Chrysanthemums Your shop will be closed on Thurs Nov 1st |
Apt Market, a colourful affair at the best of times, has gone Chrysanthemum Crazy, with brightly coloured blooms everywhere.
Next Thursday, all of these bright displays will be placed on the graves of loved ones and people will pause a while to remember those they’ve lost.
Yes, it’s different here.
Massive Faux Pas to avoid : If you’re visiting a French person and want to bring flowers, don’t ever, ever bring Chrystanthemums.
Now that I’m getting into a good routine with the horses, I’m going to start keeping track of my progress with Aero again. I have found it very useful to go back over the earlier “Aero’s Diary” posts and see what kind of work I was doing with him and how it worked, right up to when “Aero’s Diary” turned into “Diary of a Chronic Abscess,” anyway.
Flurry is… well Flurry is Flurry, he’s the horse I made and I fit on him like a glove. I’ve hacked him out on his own and in strange company and he’s working well and happily in the arena – in fact I’m pretty sure I could ride a (Prelim!) dressage test on him tomorrow and pull a 60% plus score. He’ll get fitter and stronger, and I hope to improve both him and me as we proceed.
I felt like a beginner on him, I would fall behind the movement, or lose the rhythm and struggle to find it again. Making excuses, the arena footing varies hugely, from firm-ish to quite deep, and that, coupled with his general bounciness, was just too much for me to cope with. Because of my poor balance, my hands were unsteady and he couldn’t trust me to keep a steady contact with his mouth. His head would come up, and I would be back to square one “inviting” him to work back down into the contact again. We finished up with some moderately acceptable work, but I wasn’t happy. I’m so much less fit now than I was back in May when I started riding him and I think that’s why I’m now struggling to keep my balance – my core muscles have gone all soggy.
Thursday
Thursday was the day I hacked Flurry with Marie-Christine and Alexandrine. I had to go home after riding Flurry – the hyper-terriers were home alone, and we have to be super-diligent about letting them out to wee, Cookie’s bladder control isn’t great unless she’s in kennels on a ferry!
I came back in the afternoon to work with Aero. I’d been mulling over the feeling I got from him the previous day – mulish, uninterested, begrudging. That’s not Aero, but there are many possible explanations :
Then I graduated to work in walk on a small circle : walk on…… and…whoa…. nothing, no response. I got him to halt by walking him into the fence, didn’t praise him, because, hell, he hadn’t been a good boy!
Repeat the exercise… same thing. And repeat… same thing. He was so tuned out, I might as well not have been there. So I decided – rightly or wrongly – that he needed “Consequences” for not paying attention.
Next time he ignored my “whoa” request, I jerked hard on the lunge-line, once (and before the Internet Police come knockin’ on my door, No, the lunge line wasn’t connected to the bit ring, it was clipped onto the noseband ring on his Micklem bridle). He was surprised, wheeled around and stopped dead. Again, I didn’t praise him – in my book, he still hadn’t been a good boy. I did this a few times, and eventually, the penny seemed to drop. He halted immediately when I said “Whoa.” Finally. I walked up to him, made a big fuss of him and gave him a piece of carrot which I had in my pocket. We did this a few more times, and Hallelujah! it seems to have been a mini-breakthrough.
Keep your fingers crossed for us this week!
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| Aero and his Fly Fringe (which he wasn’t too impressed with) |
Yesterday, I finally managed to clip Flurry. I rode him in the arena first thing in the morning – he was lovely! We worked on canter a little bit, so he had sweated up a lot by the time I finished. I washed him down well and then worked with Aero. By the time I finished, Flurry was drying out well, so I decided to come back to the farm with my clippers straight after lunch and pray that he wouldn’t roll again.
I arrived back to a clean horse – what a miracle – so I brought him down to the stables and got to work. Two of the other liveries were there, I think they are mother and daughter. They own a grey mare and her eighteen month old son, who is a very handsome boy indeed. I’ll do a post soon about the farm and all the horses, and you’ll see what I mean.
I had met the Mum and Daughter before, but, apart from the “Bonjour” required by politeness, they’ve pretty much ignored me – I am the outsider here, after all! This time, though, they were doing some in-hand work with the foal, and came down to the stables. They wanted to introduce him to puddles – a rarity here – and also let him see a clippers in action. I had a good chat with the mum, whose name, strangely enough, is Martine. Horses are a great common ground, and once we got going, we found we had a shared passion for good Dressage – it seems DuJardin, Hester and Munoz Diaz translate into every language! We ended up with the daughter helping me finish off Flurry’s clip, by pulling his front legs forward to so I could clip his “underarms,” and also with a promise of hacking companionship – she is getting a Connemara pony to ride for the winter months, and will be delighted to have someone to ride with.
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| Flurry’s very minimal clip |
Alexandrine’s mother Marie-Christine then arrived, to accompany Alexandrine the first time she rode a young horse out. More chatting ensued, as she tacked up her horse, Pietro. She told me that Pietro is supposed to be a Criollo, but doesn’t have any papers. She’s only had him since last January, she bought him when her old horse had to be retired. On his feet, he wore Renegade boots – her old horse was barefoot for seventeen years and Pietro is making the transition to barefoot. She does her own trimming, but gets the farrier to check her horse every eight weeks or so. She rides in a rope halter – Alexandrine helped her train Pietro to be rideable in a halter instead of a bridle when he arrived last January. On his back, was a western type saddle, with a bridle slung over the horn – just in case she needed extra control if Alexandrine’s youngster was difficult. Also slung over the horn was a leather case, containing a large pair of snips and a foldable saw – she told me that, as she rides along the local trails, she cuts down any low branches and helps to keep the trail clear for everyone. I also noticed that she was wearing a helmet – I was a little surprised, actually, that’s quite un-French. I remarked on it and she said she always wears one, and I nodded, I always wear one too.
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| Pietro ready for the trail |
I was finding it hard to keep up with the four-way chat and my brain was rapidly approaching meltdown, so I politely excused myself and took Flurry back to his field. But before I left, Marie-Christine made a hacking “date” with me for the following morning! Brilliant! Someone local to show me around!
I was really looking forward to our trek the following morning. I decided that I would ride Flurry, so I could just relax and enjoy myself – Aero is still a little unsettled and would be something of an unknown quantity (to me) with strange horses. Marie-Christine watched me tack up and asked if I used the Renegades on Flurry. When I said no, she nodded and said his feet looked good (go, Flurry’s feet!!).
Once we were ready, we walked up to the arena to meet Alexandrine, who was accompanying us with the young filly. Marie-Christine mounted from a block, and slipped a piece of carrot to Pietro. Alexandrine asked if I was going to walk for a while, as she was going to walk with the filly until she settled. I said no, I would mount the same as her mother and pointed at the block. I mounted, and Flurry turned his head around for his “standing still to be mounted” reward, which I had ready. When I looked up again, they were both smiling broadly and Marie-Christine said “Your horses are barefoot, you use Renegades and you give them carrots, I think you are the same as us.”
“I think I’m in the perfect place” was my reply, as we set off down the drive.
The hack itself was perfect, uneventful. The young filly settled quickly and Alexandrine mounted. We were on the road for about 50 meters at the start and at the end, otherwise we were on woodland trails and forestry roads. Idyllic.
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| Marie-Christine and Pietro lead the way, with Doug the dog in front |
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| Tree-house. You can see Pietro’s head on the right with his rope halter |
In the middle of the woods was this very cool tree-house, where we met some bikers who had stopped for a break. Alexandrine offered to take a photo of me, which was very nice of her, so here I am grinning like an idiot over my shoulder.
Alexandrine’s youngster is a Lusitano, so her mane and the top of her tail have been clipped. She’s just with Alexandrine for breaking, and will be going home in about two weeks.
After about an hour, Marie-Christine asked if Flurry would be ok to give the filly a lead home. Sure, I said, so she bid us farewell and headed back towards Reillanne where she lives, but not before she offered to meet up with me again to show me around some more – yippee!
Alexandrine and I were continuing through the woods when we came to a cleared area, where there was someone with a tractor and trailer, loading logs.
“C’est mon Papa,” said Alexandrine (that’s my father).
OH!! Does he sell wood? We need to buy some for the winter! was my very enthusiastic response.
It turns out he does, so we stopped for a chat and I got my order for winter firewood sorted out. HAH! That’s one Dreaded Foreign Fonecall I won’t have to make!
To finish the morning, I got a spin on the Quad with Alexandrine, just from the horses’ field shelter back to the stables. I’ve never been on one before, what fun!
To end a great day, our first visitor arrived. Granny is here for the next two weeks. She had an uneventful flight from Dublin to Nice but is a bit tired – currently snoozing in the armchair beside me.
All in all, it’s been a really good couple of days and I’m beginning to feel like I will fit in well at the farm. I’m determined to keep speaking my crap French. Marie-Christine offered to speak English, which was very kind, but I said no, I have to learn. They were both correcting me as we rode along, which I appreciate, I just hope I can retain some of their corrections, otherwise they will start to think I’m some sort of a dunce! Later on that day, I met Georges, Alexandrine’s Papa, and we chatted for a bit – he was speaking very slowly and clearly, and offered words if I was stuck. They are all being so kind, and I really appreciate it.
I’m looking forward to seeing what the next few weeks bring.

