This Day Two Years Ago…

Travelling

 

How time flies!

Pas de Deux Part Deux

I had a lesson arranged with Alexandrine this morning.  I had thought I’d probably do some dressage type stuff with Flurry, because we have a competition coming up on October 12th.  Unfortunately, I had a follow-up visit with the osteopath yesterday.  She did a lot of work on my left hip and I knew I should take it easy even before I checked with her…

So first of all I thought I’d do travail sur sol (in-hand work) with Flurry (because he needs it more than Aero).  And then I thought, well, what I’m really struggling with is the Ride One/Work One stuff, so why not seek help from Alexandrine with that?  So I did, thinking it would be gentle, easy work.  And it was – mostly.  I may have overdone it on the leg-yielding though.  My hip and back started to complain after doing that for fifteen minutes.  Oops.

Reflections Beforehand

I felt I should work with Flurry solo for 10 – 15 minutes, just to get him tuned in and receptive.  This worked like a charm, apart from the fact that Flurry could see Aero grazing the whole time he was working and he was fully aware of the injustice of the situation.

I decided to opt for a shorter whip, without a lash.  I’m very, very good at getting everything tangled up together and I figured one less piece of string/rope would be a good thing.  It was better, I was much less tangled, but it shortened my range for touching Aero.

I wasn’t sure whether to ride Flurry in a bridle or the rope halter.  I opted for the halter in the end, saying that I could switch if I wasn’t happy.  As it turned out, I completely forgot that Flurry was bitless.  It feels so normal to me now!

Reflections afterwards.

This time, Flurry was really well tuned in and Aero was a bit asleep.  I have to figure out how to balance having one very reactive horse and one rather laid back horse.  Perhaps next time, I will work the two of them on the ground together for a while.  I definitely need to work on sharpening up Flurry’s reactions.

I notice a couple of times in the video that Flurry’s going quite nicely – and I don’t release the contact as a reward.  He ends up asking me for a release, and I still don’t give it.  I’m so focussed on ‘doing stuff’ that I forget about riding him properly and rewarding him for his efforts.  Poor Flurry.  He really was trying!

When I tried Aero at liberty, at the end of the session, I allowed myself to rush into it rather than thinking about what I was doing and preparing for it.  At the end, when I remember to put the stick in front of Aero’s nose and lead him with it, he suddenly goes much more fluidly.  Gotta remember that, too!

I need to stop over-correcting Flurry.  When I was asking Aero to return to us (reverse/return), Flurry turned his head towards me.  I corrected him – on the video, it was nothing.  I should have let him be.

The hardest part for me is handling all the gear.  Two long lead ropes and one stick in two hands.  After the first few really awful attempts at leg-yield, Alex suggested that I tie up Aero’s lead rope so it was like reins and to hold it as such, as well as moving Flurry away from Aero rather than towards.  That worked a lot better and I found the two sets of rope easier to handle in that manner.

All in all, I was really pleased with them both. This is new, fun stuff for the three of us.  It has completely changed all our views (me, Aero and Flurry) on arena work.

We may even attempt canter soon.  On a warm day.  Preferably with two very tired, lazy horses.

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Being Positive

Just over a week ago, a friend passed the “One Week of Positives” challenge to me on Facebook.  Surprise, surprise, I found it easy to do.  Yes, you’re thinking, but Martine lives in flipping’ Provence with her soulmate and her dogs and her horses… of course she has loads of positive things going on in her life.

Sure, I’m very lucky – but I made it happen.

Twelve years ago, things were at a low ebb for us.  The LSH had lost his job.  I had a couple of livery horses, which just about covered the keep of our own horses, but I had no income otherwise. We weren’t entitled to any benefits. Emigration was looking like the only solution, but we were determined to allow our daughters to finish out their education in Ireland.  And we managed.  The LSH worked as a carpenter’s assistant for a year, until he got another tech job, and I got a job as a dental nurse and also increased the size of the livery stables (thanks to my friend Denis who I keep referring to!).

Five years ago, when I was debating whether I’d get back into riding or not, I could have decided no – it’s too expensive, I’m having too much trouble with my back, it’s too dangerous, it’s too much work, it’s too much commitment… etc…etc…  Buying Flurry and getting back to riding seriously was one of the best things I’ve ever done.  I’m not sure I’d have settled so well here in France without the horses.

Just over two years ago, I was not in a good place.  I’d had a couple of personal issues (which will remain that – personal!) and I was pretty much single-handedly clearing out our house and preparing to move here.  I was close to saying feck it, we’ll stay in Cork, but I didn’t.  Making that moves was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done but also, again, one of the best things I’ve ever done.

I suppose what I’m trying to say is that, even when I haven’t been 100% happy, I’ve made my choices, I’ve looked to the future, I’ve been positive about what I want and I’ve done everything I can to make it happen.  I guess I’ve been lucky in that it has usually worked for me.

For what it’s worth, here are my positives from the week gone by :

DAY 1: (Weds)

1. My mum is in great form after having surgery today
2. I have an amazing friend who is prepared to be a surrogate daughter when necessary
3. Although I felt like I’d been run over by a train this morning after my visit to the osteopath yesterday, I am feeling a LOT better this evening.

DAY 2: (Thurs)

1. The Mammy is home from hospital 
2. I got in touch with friends from waaaaay back today & we’ll see them next week
3. Had a yummy dinner with tomato sauce made with our own cherry tomatoes

DAY 3: (Posted on Sat)

1. We live in a lovely place that people like to visit
2. Two old friends arrived on Friday and we did loads of catching up (hence I didn’t post any positives on Friday itself)
3. Scaramouche – Artisan Glacier – Adventures in Ice Cream, the fifth-best ice-cream maker in France (as voted by TripAdvisor users) is just a ten minutes walk from our house.

DAY 4: (Sat)
1. Aero concentrated very hard when I worked him in the morning, despite the attentions of hundreds of ravenous horseflies
2. I swallowed two flies (not horseflies) while working with Aero, thereby reducing the overall fly-population of Provence.
3. My inability to post three positives on a daily basis proves that I am a strong, independent woman who will not blindly follow along with the latest internet trend 

A fourth positive – I had typed ‘latex internet trend’ by mistake. Well, I’m positively thrilled that I spotted that one before I hit the ‘POST’ button.

DAY 5: (Sun)

1. I am very lucky in that I am sitting here thinking of all the good things that happened today and trying to figure out which ones to post
2. Had a really nice morning with our friends which ended up with us sitting in the Café du Cours with a nice bunch of people for quite some time
3. had an interesting discussion about the power of positive thinking and why it’s better to be a ‘glass is half full’ sort of person so I’m looking forward to seeing what John makes of this positive thinking challenge! (John has just written a self-help book.  He’s a pretty amazing guy, but I’m still waiting for him to do his Daily Positive challenge!)

DAY 6: (Mon)

DSCN49611. The dogs woke me up just in time for this glorious sunrise.

2. I had a lot of fun playing with my little ponies this morning
3. Temperatures are dropping and the flies will soon be gone. DIE YOU HORSE PESTERING BASTARDS, DIE!

DAY 7: (Tues)

DSCN49721. Thank you, doggies, for waking me up at 6.45am again. I could view this in a negative manner, but I choose to view it in a positive light. How could I be grumpy with such beauty in the sky?

2. Flurry was much better than expected when we did some ‘serious’ schooling today ‪#‎notentirelyshite‬
3. My very last positive and the biggest one of the whole lot – I have the very best family without whom my life would have been radically different. Love you all.

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