What happens when a horsemad Ould Wagon moves from Cork to Provence with 2 horses, 2 dogs and a Long Suffering Husband? Why, she gets a third dog, discovers Natural Horsemanship à la Française, starts writing short stories and then discovers a long-buried talent for art, of course…
Since the end of May, Alexandrine has been breaking two of the most sensitive and complicated horses she’s ever had. They’ve both been at the farm for almost a month and a half now and she’s only just managed to start riding them last week. Normally, she’s in the saddle within ten days. She has a new breaker in now, who she’s already riding after just a couple of days – he has no ‘issues’ and will possibly go home next week!
Auzzi, the little chestnut Arabian mare, was incredibly reactive to being touched, and Alex spent a lot of time with a Parelli type flag, trying to teach her that being touched was not a bad thing.
She was extremely difficult to put the saddle on and really REALLY hated having the girth touch her rib cage.
After three weeks, she was still behaving like this :
The problem was, once she panicked, her brain shut down completely and she was incapable of registering the fact that nothing bad was actually happening to her.
The breakthrough came around very slowly. There were no miracles, no shortcuts, just constant repetition of desensitisation exercises and consistent handling. Finally, it was time to think about riding her, but Alexandrine was very wary as she works alone. A huge part of her method relies on the horse learning to look to her for direction when something unexpected happens, and this is difficult if she is the ‘something unexpected’ on the horse’s back! She tried using Roger, the giant teddy bear, but that did not go well. Then Mr Endurance kindly volunteered to be the Crash Test Dummy first to back Auzzi. And it went really well. So well, that five days later, Flurry and I escorted her on her first trek. We were meant to be there as the lead horse, but she didn’t need us – she seems to be a brave and confident trail horse, which is good because her owners run a trekking centre!
Prince, the gorgeous Appaloosa gelding, was almost completely unhandled when he arrived.
All he knew was that if he pulled hard enough on a lead rope, he could escape. So part of the initial work with him was teaching him that pulling away was not a good idea. And he turned out to be just as sensitive to touch as Auzzi. Alexandrine spent the best part of three weeks just teaching to him to accept touch without reacting. Once that was done, it was easy to saddle him up. And from there on, he went from strength to strength.
Aero and I babysat him on his first trek last week. At first, he was afraid of everything he saw (including lavender!), but he quickly got braver and even went in front for a while.
A day later, he went out in a group of four which included Flurry and I, and he behaved very well. That is, apart from kicking out at Flurry when I got too close (Mea Culpa) and apart from reacting a little too strongly to flies.
I reckon our babysitting duties are complete with those two. Auzzi is going home on Saturday and Prince will probably go home next week. Good luck to them both – and their owners.
The lavender is at its purplicious best right now. I asked the LSH if he would come out with me one morning and take a few lavender + horses photos, with the aim of having a new header image here.
We ended up with quite a few to choose from, so I will be picking two – one for here and one for the Tails From Provence Facebook page. I’ve also got some nice candidates for new Profile pictures, but I’m not sure how I’ll use them.
Just for fun, here are the top candidates. I’ve got my own ideas as to which ones I’ll use but I’d love to hear what you guys think!

#1 Bringing the horses in from their field. They’re both saying “What’s George doing in the middle of the lavender?”

#2 Similar to #1 but closer to the camera. You see this one again later, but you might not recognise it.

#3 Both horses nicely in step. I don’t look like Quasimodo. I did in a surprising number of photos 😦
Profile Pic Candidates :
Huge thanks to the LSH for getting up at 6am on his morning off to take these photos.
(A little late with this, but better late than never.)
I’m not a big jewellery wearer, so I surprised the LSH when I told him I wanted a bracelet for my birthday. I made it simple for him – I did all the ordering myself. He didn’t have to do anything except say “Ok, that’s a good idea” when I explained what it was.
It arrived a bit after my birthday…
…but that was the fault of the person who ordered it. Oops.
It came in a lovely little box, with an extra freebie included – a handbag charm.
It fitted perfectly (phew!)
This bracelet is unique. It’s one of a kind. It’s made from a very special, highly sought-after, yet eminently renewable material.
Yes, it’s made with Tails from Provence! Flurry and Aero donated a chunk of tail each and I sent them off to Kayti Aiken, aka Celtic Horsehair Creations. Kayti is one of the many on-line friends I’ve made since starting this blog. She started her own business making keepsake jewellery for horse owners about a year ago and I think it’s going well for her. I can certainly recommend it – the finish on both the bracelet and the charm is perfect, with no stray hairs sticking out anywhere and beautiful even braiding throughout. Her page is here : Celtic Horse Hair Creations Check it out – her prices are great considering how much work goes into each piece!
And yes, Flurry and Aero do have some tail left.

